Nowadays, many guys are so sloppy when it comes to making the first move.

It can be very hard for a lady to keep hanging around a guy that doesn’t show any interest in a romantic and intimate relationship.

In this article, I want to discuss with you some interesting and decent ways you can let a guy know you are interested without looking cheap to him.

The things you are about to read are what many smart ladies have used through the years to achieve amazing results in their dating relationship with guys.

And to say the least, a lot of them are in happy relationships as at this writing.

You can experience the same result like these happy people if you will implement the strategies you are about to read. Let’s dive in without further ado.

Get Physical

Have no shame in your game. Go in there like you have nothing to lose.

A man respects a woman who sometimes is willing to make the first move and show she is game to be with him. 

Bump into the guy you like at parties, walk away without apologizing and let his eyes follow you to the end of the room.

Trust me, he will come over to find out what’s cooking. It could be an office crush or a hot boss.

In that case, never let a moment or excuse pass for you to casually lean in and touch at the slightest opportunity. 

A touch here and there can send the right sensation and message to that guy you fancy.

What’s more, you can let a guy know you are interested by making incessant eye contact.

Get his juices flowing with smoldering stares that light his fire. I will never forget the first girlfriend I had in my secondary school days.

A very ravishing beauty that she was! I caught her many times stealing a look at me!

I needed nobody to tell me that the girl was head over heels interested in me.

You see, you don’t need to spend a fortune to connect with your crush.

Just use your natural endowments to let him know what’s up. Works every time.

Compliments

Talk him up any chance you get. Hype up his best assets, especially the ones he likes to show off.

It could be his fit physique or his admirable fashion sense. Make him feel super attractive, especially in front of his friends.

A man takes great pride in his appearance and how he is perceived by the opposite sex, especially if it’s a woman he fancies.  

So be effusive with your praise for him and how great his appearance is and he will come around to seeing things your way.

In fact, this is one of the best ways to let a guy know you are interested. Give him a special compliment.

Tell him he is cute. He might be the slow type or someone who always saw you as beyond his reach.

Compliments delivered correctly and appropriately can be the ice breaker needed to start off something really beautiful.

Be Obvious

Sometimes you just have to be about it, like a Master P classic. Make no bones about your intention to end up in his bed and life.

You can do a bit of investigation to understand his dating history by asking his or mutual friends. Most men have a type. Some are ass men, some have boobs, legs or creamy skin.

Accentuate your features that align with his taste in women. Put on that flirty dress that will definitely catch his eye in a crowd.

Walk up to him, stand real close and talk to him like he is the only person you are interested in talking to in their entire world.

Your eyes should convey all the feels and lay bare what you’re thinking about regarding him.

Act easy if you dare to get what you want. You can tighten things up later when you have snatched him up for good.

Saucy Pictures

Want a guy to know you are interested? Set traps on the internet. By these I mean employ the Diddy crop when you post pictures of a group of people with you and your crush.

Say your crush is a dude in your theater class and you are taking pictures as an end of year collective.

When posting those specific pictures, crop out everyone else but the man you like and post on a shared social media platform. It will definitely send tongues wagging and get his attention.

Your message will be conveyed even if you have to go through some well-mannered ribbing in the process. 

That says to everyone, especially him, that he is the only one you fancy in the group and you are being mature and upfront about.

The bold one’s hardly strike out. This always works to let a guy know you are really interested in him.

Boost His Ego

Talking up a guy and making him feel on top of the world does the trick too. Men have left their wives and girlfriends for a woman on the side who makes him feel like superman.

I’m not advocating you become a home wrecker, but sometimes you have to do what you have to do, to get the man of your dreams.

A man will always gravitate towards a woman who raises him up, in every sense of the word, rather than a woman who tears him down.

Use His Friends

There are times when you may not be making as much progress as you would like in your quest to win your love interest's heart.

At times like this you can ask his closest friends to let him know you like him.

They can act as the go-between in this intimate negotiation. 

They can convince him on your behalf if he wasn’t sure about you or if you were too shy to ask you out from the onset.

Also you can save yourself some time and frustration by finding out from his friends if he is into you or not.

When you find out what’s on his mind you can set up a date as the next step to start the ball rolling or disconnect completely to focus on a new man.

Tell Him He’s Funny

Another very interesting way to let a guy know you are interested is to laugh at his jokes and do it loudly and flirtatiously, while maintaining eye contact.

Let everything about your presence let him know he is the one. He is making the effort to convey that he is funny and wants to make you laugh and have fun.

Reciprocate by showing how much you enjoy his company and his conversations.

Make him feel he can hold your attention at all times as the brilliant conversationalist he is.

Be Blunt

Be a grown woman and straight up ask him if he is single, while letting him know you are single as well.

If he answers in the affirmative, move in for the kill. No time to waste. This is not your first rodeo.

You are experienced in the business of love and sex. At least I expect you to be while reading this article.

Do not be coy. He will be pleasantly surprised by your bluntness and find your approach refreshing, as opposed to men always making the first move.

It is time for women to break the rules and take the bull by the ……. horn……… or whatever they want to hold.

Get Him To The Dance Floor

Time to show him those sleek, sexy moves. You do not need to have the dance ability of a prime Janet Jackson.

Pretend you are from the Caribbean and slow wind that man. Get real tight and close and squash your boobs against his chest.

Let him feel every inch of those sumptuous curves as you whip him into a frenzy on the dance floor.

He will ask you with the last breath of restraint in his body for your contacts to make sure he gets that treatment for a while yet.

There should be no shame in your game. Act and get your man.

A Bubbly Personality

Don’t repress your personality. Be a bubbly and positive influence whenever you are around him and his friends.

Direct most of your good cheer in his direction when you are with friends. That way, it won’t be long for him to know you are interested in him and that he is special to you.

He has to know that, most of the reason you are feeling happy and bubbly is because of him.  

He enjoys your personality and presence and you should make it plain you want to share your moments with him and him alone.

Arrange A Date

Take him out of that platonic mindset he has about you, let him know you have arranged a date for just the both of you.

This can be a strategy employed after utilizing the aforementioned without getting the desired results.

Choose a restaurant that looks cozy and intimate and serves alcohol. 

Everything about the date should be fashioned to loosen him up and get him to like you.

Do not empty your bank account though. Make sure you are able to carry this out before you execute. 

Do Not Be Patronizing

Allow him to express himself freely with you. Do not mock or scoff at his opinions.

Your rebuttals should be done respectfully and with regard to his state of mind.

Let him know his opinions are valid and deserve your measured response.

He will admire greatly for that and would want to get to know you on a deep, personal level.

Do Not Friend-Zone Him

A man wants to feel he has a shot at his favorite girl.

Let him know he has a chance at getting in your pants and consequently your heart.

Do not keep giving him that friend vibe or introducing him to people as just a friend.

Your tone should reveal your raw emotions about him.  

Gifts And Surprises

Go against the grain and do things that are expected from the opposite sex.

It is not canon that men should be the first to initiate conversations, set up dates, buy gifts or get down on one knee.

Do the unexpected. Take him by surprise and get him thoughtful little gifts that speak to his individuality.

Gifts and surprises are a good teaser to get a guy thinking about you and let him know you are interested.

Let him know he is the object and focus of your desire. It can be a gamble because you might be dealing with a childish man boy.

Chances are you may be dealing with the real McCoy and be on your way to landing a really good man. 

Conversational Skills

Learn to hold a proper conversation. Challenge him whenever the opportunity arises to have a one on one conversation with him.

Find out his likes and dislikes, his hobbies and ambitions and what gets him going. You break the ice, build a better understanding and a bond with him when the conversation is real, spicy and enjoyable.

Conversations are what keeps the relationship going in the in between moments of vacations, work, sex and meals.

Make sure it is captivating.

Make Him Feel Needed

Make him feel like a man. Appeal to his masculinity and encourage him to seek out things that amplify that.

Ask him to help you open jars, move the furniture and fix the things that he generally sees as a man’s job.

Stifle your overwhelming need for feminism and let him take charge.

A good man will not lord it over you but empower you and make you feel like a fulfilled woman.

Be Yourself

Even though you want to let a guy know you are interested, this shouldn't make you lose your uniqueness and personality. It can be hard to be open in this cynical world.

Especially in a dating scene that is as volatile as a shark tank. Having the courage to be yourself with him can be a risk worth taking.

But in some wonderful cases, you end up opening up to a great guy who will really appreciate you for who you are and respect that you saw him worthy to be completely yourself.