It’s high time we had a frank talk with guys. How to make a girlfriend chase you is not rocket science. 

You need to master the art, so you will not come across as being petty or uncultured. Like it is believed in many quarters, it is easier for a girl to chase a guy than the other way round. 

But even with that said, a lot of guys have a hell of time getting a girl’s attention, let alone getting her to chase them.

In this article, I am going to discuss time-tested and proven methods you can deploy, to make a girlfriend chase you.

1. Self Improvement

That girls are attracted to physically fit guys is no longer news. Little wonder why guys with six packs and broad chest are hot cakes for many girls.

What am I driving at?

You see, experience has taught us that looking physically fit is one of the best ways  to make a girlfriend chase you. You would be best served to invest in yourself, especially in the area of self-improvement.

Looking good is always your cheat code to get a woman to be into you. Having an exercise regimen and sticking to it to get the desired results is advisable.

Alongside that would be your diet, maintaining a proper hygiene and improving your wardrobe.

Physical appearance is also related to your self-esteem. Looking good and attractive will boost your confidence and your girlfriend will seek your attention constantly.

2. Body Language

This may require practice and experience over time.

As a carryover from previous point, exercise gives you great posture and then self-esteem, because you know how you look.

That self-esteem helps in how you confidently move around to attract girls. You do not move around in an awkward manner that would make you look unattractive to your girlfriend.

Your body language goes a long way to register the type of person you are in a girl’s mind, and it will make her chase you in a special way.

Always smile and make eye contact with her when you are talking to her.

It makes her feel even more connected to you and make her want you even more. 

3. Keep Yourself Busy

To avoid monotony in the relationship, try not be hang around your girlfriend all the time.

Give her some space to breathe. While you are doing that, it is important for her to see you have other things going on in your life besides her.

If you start acting like she is the only person in the whole world, she might start thinking that you are desperate and needy.

Showing her that you are always busy proves to her that you are an ambitious man who thinks about setting up a successful future in a strategic manner.

Show her that you want to make the most out of any opportunity. You basically have to prove by how you move that you have your own life and she has to make a great effort to be in it.

This is a strong pointer to the girl that you are made of great stuff, and she has no choice but to chase you!

4. The Friend Zone Angle

This is a calculated risk taken by the most confident men, because it appeals to the ego of beautiful women when you don’t treat her like other men who are drooling all over her on a daily basis.

Being friend zoned by the person we like is difficult for everyone to accept. But, in some strange way, rejection is what attracts us the most to the people we like.

We all want the unattainable. That desire to conquer something and prove you can get it like most things in your life makes a woman keep up the chase to move from the friendship zone to the significant other status.

5. Get Her Friends On Board

A great way to get a girlfriend chase you, is to build a great relationship with her friends.

She values the bond with her friends and you more or less being part of the squad makes her feel closer to you and desire a relationship much more.

That’s why it’s important that you get to know them and get them to like you. Treat her friends like you do yours.

Make the most effort to always respect her and compliment her in their company.

Convincing them, with their huge influence over the girl in question, will sway her opinions and emotions favorably in your advantage.

All of these will make her like you so much, that she more or less takes over the chase in the build up to your union. 

6. The Mystery Angle

When you are difficult to figure out and mysterious it tickles a woman’s fancy tremendously.

This is a very important strategy to use when you want your girlfriend to chase you. the most important thing you should know if you want to make a woman chase you.

Being mysterious will make your woman find you irresistible. Be lively and entertaining but do not reveal too much about yourself.

This extends to not sharing too much information about yourself on your social media. Let her make the effort to investigate things she would like to know about you.

This tells you if she likes you enough to find out some things about you by herself. She’ll watch your every move very closely and attentively.

If she likes you, she’ll want to know more about you and your likes and dislikes.

So that mysterious aura around you will heighten her fascination for you and make her chase you relentlessly. 

8. Don’t Be A Pushover

It is not out of place to liken this heading to growing a pair, as they say. Man up and display your masculinity and assertiveness.

Refrain from agreeing with her on everything all the time. When you agree to everything she says and suggests, it, makes you look like a man without character. She’ll take you to be a people-pleaser.

And women don’t necessarily fall for pushovers. That would be men who can’t express their own opinions and fail to have their own views about most things you challenge them at.

Be quick to speak up If you don’t like something or you’re not okay with anything she suggests.

Even at the risk of getting her mad, you shouldn’t change your opinion.

If you want your girlfriend to chase you, do not have any trepidation about challenging her and arguing over different issues. Women admire a man with a backbone.

9. Humour

Humor has always been a great way to get a girlfriend to chase you. Women find guys who can make them laugh very attractive.

While this is established though, know that there are some no-go areas you should not stray to.

Do not use jokes that make you look and sound creepy. Also, don’t use dirty jokes if you’ve just met the woman in question.

Possessing a sense of humor isn’t restricted to telling jokes all the time, it’s also in the ability to find the funny in things around you and being able to make your girlfriend smile in every situation.

That makes her look forward to seeing you when you are not around or not hesitate to chase you when you dither.

10. Good Old Sweet Talk

Compliments, when paid regularly to a woman can have a magical effect on her. Especially, when they are genuine and sincere compliments.

She has to be absolutely certain that you mean them when you say them. She will likely find it offensive when you are just complimenting her as a ruse to only sleep with her.

Your compliments have the power to make her day better. If you know when and how to use compliments, you will be making your woman’s days better and have her chasing you around. 

11. Mind Games

It can be the right policy in this case to make your girlfriend in order to get her to chase you. It does not mean you have to engage in blatant flirtations and cheating with other women.

You can do this by being on the phone with platonic female friends all the time when she is in earshot, liking pictures of pretty girls on social media and spending a bit too much time chatting with her female friends when they come over.

Do not over do things while trying to make her jealous though, because she can flip the table and start doing the same thing, not knowing you were joking, and start flirting with other men which would drive you crazy.

Having to confess later that you were joking might be disastrous, because it might make you look endearing to her or downright weak. Learn to walk the line when you are trying to  make your girlfriend chase you by making her jealous.

12. Play Hard To Get

Letting her know you find her attractive when you first meet has to be the way to go. Nothing wrong with that.

But then after getting her phone number, you should exercise restraint and not call immediately. Give some time, to keep her guessing.

Play up the importance of your job, so she thinks you are always too busy for distractions and she will hard to prove she won’t be one to you.

Making her see that you are serious minded makes her value the time she has with you and chase you when you are not around.

Do not be too quick to reply her texts and phone calls to keep her on her toes and wonder what you are up to and where she stands in your life.

13. Create Absence

Be totally involved with group activities with her and mutual friends. Chat and engage with other people and do not act like you need to be around her all the time.

She will respect that and work to gain your attention even more. It really is a game once you come to assess it objectively.

Try not to be cruel though. Give her as much space as she wants to let her know you can function without her and have value beyond your relationship.

You want her to chase you and not the other way around. Go out with your friends and don’t respond to her calls, but post a photo from the club on your Social media status.

It will set her off and make her want you even more.

14. Be Enigmatic

You have to get her to be curious about you and your lifestyle. Make her earn the details about your life.

You have to convince her that you are fully enjoying your life and that it is sometimes challenging to factor her and her needs in too. The aim to challenge her without being on to it.  

Delay in to her texts instantly, postponing plans you’ve made with her, while being mysterious, and being different from other men.

These are some ideas you can use in challenging your girlfriend and make her chase you relentlessly.

15. Show Interest

Show interest in her past and family history. Do not focus on her love life and exes.

This will impress her and get her curious about you. It will be nice for you to find out what her strengths and weaknesses are.

She will realize that you are interested in her because you want to know more about her.

Women, especially your girlfriend, appreciate men who are good listeners. If you show her that you understand her and sympathize with her, in all her challenges, she will become truly obsessed with you.

16. Restraint

When she tells you how she feels about you, do not rush to tell her your feelings too soon. You might just scare her away.

And even when she admits that she likes you first, you shouldn’t pour out your heart to her immediately.

Tell her how much you love to hang out with her ad want to take things at her pace.

17. Make Friends With Her Friends

A girl takes the opinions of her friends very seriously, especially when it concerns a guy she likes.

That’s because, a girl’s friends can be seen as extensions of her. Which means that if a guy is good for a girl, he must also get along with her group of friends.

If you want a girl to chase you make sure you are in tight with her crew. They become your cheer-leading team without pay and get her to call you and reach out when work or other commitments keep you away.

18. Be Elusive

Be vague without being cruel. Women like what they can’t have full access to and it leads to a craze and almost desperate feeling to possess that.

Be that and create that sensation in your girlfriend and will chase you for life.

19. Kryptonite

Tell her how much power she wields over you in a playful yet serious manner.

Women love to feel they own serious real estate in your heart. Let her know she is your weakness and that you can’t do without her.

That turns her on and keeps her interested.

12. Be Different

When you dare to be different with your approach and conduct with her she knows she is dealing with a different guy to her exes and that intrigues her.

This should not necessarily be a ploy, but you embracing a part of yourself that makes you feel insecure in the past but you are now fully willing to embrace.

That part of you that you are ashamed of may be the one that she is obsessed with.

13. Conversational Skills

Most of the magic of getting a woman hooked on you is the quality of your conversations. Having your woman hanging onto your every word can be the power you have over her. Especially when her friends enjoy your company too. She can’t wait to hang out with you all the time and her friends will constantly ask about you.

14. Seduction

Simply knowing how to seduce a woman by a skilled touch can be addictive.

That is because knowing how to touch a woman the right way, may be one the most important ways of getting a woman to become really drawn to you.

Think of the lyrics of a Miguel Love song and how he conveys the power of his touch on his woman, it takes practice and restraint. Those you will acquire over time.

Once done, do not hesitate to apply on your girlfriend to drive her crazy and make her chase you.

15. First Impressions

If you want a girl to chase you, try and make a great first impression.

The memory of the great guy they first met keeps them around expecting to see that side of you hopefully all the time.

It helps to show glimpses of that tremendous personality that won her over now and again to keep the fire burning.